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     很多人很多事,你覺得莫名奇妙、不合邏輯、一點道理都沒有,就是因為這些人這些事,一開始以及接下來成長或發展的過程,就被一堆似是而非的怪邏輯與沒道理塑造與養成。
 
    常被人看作是一個超級理性的人,對,我承認,我是,因為,我堅持,說的每一句話、做的每一件事,都要有道理可循。
 
    這不是嚴格苛刻,不是鐵血無情,更不能說是吹毛求疵。這是不得不的選擇,也是比較安全適切的生存法則。你會為別人的沒道理耍的團團轉,而沒道理的自己也會把別人氣個暈頭轉向,這是相對的,所以,說話做事,求合理、講原則、有正當而明確的目的跟方法,才不會總是被人所誤也誤傷他人。
 

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    真不敢相信,但這是真的,"自己的房間"這個部落格,滿兩歲了!
 
    看著這兩年來,過往一篇篇紀錄真性情與感動與隨想的文章、還有,用自己或是別人鏡頭所捕捉的,以生命足跡認真遍歷的每個角落與目擊風景,有一種說不出的成就感,覺得我活的很認真也努力,雖然,我沒有賺大錢、沒出大名堂,但是,能夠活的這麼對得起自己,我想無非是最平凡卻也最踏實的成就。
 
    在舉凡真心、有恆、毅力、信賴......等等價值,都在動搖崩解甚或被漠視輕蔑的混沌時代,能夠本著一顆真誠單純如赤子的心,堅持做一個讓別人與自己都能信任的過的真我,不論是表露於態度或是習慣上,不扭曲、不偽裝、不善變、不浮誇...,也困難也容易。
 

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    一個購物專家出新書,書中所記載的,是自己多次整形的心路歷程。
 
    她最近一次給自己做的門面大翻修,完成於在近年來因為以既快速又效果佳的整形手術品質聞名的韓國。
 
    只要是在身上動刀,不管在哪個部位、規模大小,術後必經過一段時間的腫脹疼痛交錯折磨你的過程,我也動過整形外科的手術呢! (但是不是整容喔!! 而是去除小腿上一顆日益茁壯到有礙觀瞻的粉瘤) 所以我或多或少能體會這個曾多次整形的購物專家,曾在肉體與精神上吃的苦頭。手術前的忐忑、手術中的不安。手術後的痛苦,從頭到尾加以對美好成果的期待與因時間與疼痛的煎熬,不管是大刀還是小刀,我想有類似經驗者,一定都能領略箇中滋味。
 

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    Start thinking of the time we've spent beneath the same sky, walking in the warm sunshine, watching upon the soft white clouds passing by, through the cold rains falling, and silently looking at the very full moon, praising for the amazing peace that it gave to us.....
 
    Start thinking of every laughters and tears we've shared for all the happy and unhappy situations; luckily, we've faced and enjoyed more happy things than unhappy ones here and during this period, which is the power for us to move forwards for reaching our dreams, with mutual support, understanding and trust.
 
    Start thinking of all the unforgettable and cherished moments and experiences we've had from everywhere we'd like to and seriously make plans to take a look, with expectation made of fancy imagination, every scene and moment--whether good or bad, satisfied or disappointed--in so many wonderful trips which for me are too delightful to forget.
    

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    There is a song that I love the most and probably is that being loved by many people, called 'Desperado'.
 
   Not only its melody, but also, the lyrics, always reminds me the most valuable thing in such an imperfect world we're all living and tells us should try to realise and achieve it as possible...
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NLOEyusQMxw -- The Eagles, Desperado, please click to listen...)
 
    'It may be raining, or there's a rainbow above you...

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    星期五上完早上三小時讓人昏昏欲睡的課後,與MARKETING的同學們到泰國餐廳大快朵頤道地又超美味的THAI FOOD,大夥開心滿足地享受了一次難得的gathering,之後撐著爆破的肚皮、和幾個同學隨性地一起走到theatre去看電影。
 
    剛好,真是非常剛好,Spider Man 3這天是首映日呢!! 呵呵,擇期不如撞日,就看這部吧! 不久的四點剛好有一場,於是買了票,興高采烈地隨許多觀眾魚貫入場。
 
    一開始,滿座的廳內,昏暗的燈光加上有別於外頭冰冷空氣的溫暖空調,還有柔軟舒服的座椅,使得因為早起上課加上中午吃太飽的我們,不自主地培養起,非常想睡的情緒! 但是一連串促狹的廣告,雖然其中不乏邏輯與鋪陳怪異的英式幽默,但仍還是讓我們看的呵呵笑。我想,是因為和朋友們一起的緣故吧! 不管在眼前搬演的是甚麼,大家一起邊看邊討論,哪怕是再怪奇或再無聊的光景,也可以變得有趣。特別一提的,是史瑞克第三集的預告片!! 太可愛太爆笑啦!! 尤其是史瑞克身邊那隻擅長黑色幽默的小貓...擺酷耍寶裝夢幻都難不倒牠! 愛死這隻貓了,我們直嚷,再忙再累都非得看到史瑞克3不可!!
 

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    To Read Someone's Mind, means to understand what this person is thinking about, is the most essential thing when you attempt to get more closer to this 'someone', as well as the only one rule to maintain a trusting and longlasting relationship with the one you would really like to be with with full understanding.
 
    However, it is quite a tough work, few of us can work it well. Mistakes are not always but quite often taken while reading someone's mind, even you think yourself already try so hard and with concern and sincereness, but quite often as well, the distance is getting wider between you and that 'someone' just because you wrongly read his/her mind; an even worser situation may be: unfortunately, you and that 'someone' mutually read each other's mind in a totally wrong way.
 
    What exactly makes you read one's mind wrongly? Probably, you don't 'read' it at all--you simply 'skip' it with a jumpy or messy thought, which may blinds your eyes of your mind--the only one 'tool' for you to smoothly and faultlessly get this work through. You may say time is so limited that you have no choice but simply take a glance look and, very naively, consider that it is enough for you to get this 'someone'. But conversely, when you think like this way you simultaneously miss so many details of what you should read that unavoidably take your time to read words by words, sentences by sentences.     
 

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